Taking poetic license from Shakespeare, I recently found myself contemplating the value attributed to names and titles as I prepared for my next mission trip. For so long, my focus had been achieving more of these—whether it be professor of surgery, program director, or chair of the department. Fortunately, in His goodness, God stripped them away and left me with what really mattered—the names of wife, mother, sister, daughter, aunt, niece, friend, Godmother and now Mom Mom.
#Perspective #LegacyOverLabels #AmericanCollegeofSurgeons
In my family, Mom Mom is the sobriquet of the matriarch instead of grandmother. It has always represented the woman in the generation whose strength kept the family together. I grew up in awe of my Mom Mom, my mother’s mom, who as the mother of eight, built a newspaper alongside my Pop Pop while raising diligent and devout children. My mother, my children’s Mom Mom, followed in her footsteps embodying the same fortitude. With my Dad, she raised seven children who learned determination and discipline through tough love at an early age. So, when our eldest daughter Alejandra—who joined our family 17 years ago as our au pair and quickly became our 5th child—had her first, I could not be prouder to strive to deserve the name of Mom Mom.
#BlendedFamily #ChosenFamily #MomMomMoments
Being Mom Mom began as we walked her pregnancy together with all the anxieties and anticipation culminating in the birth. After 38 hours of labor, multiple positions, four hours of pushing and me supporting her mostly by yelling “GET OUT” to the baby and suggesting things that her wonderful OB/GYN, @JaimeObst, politely told me, “They don’t do that anymore,” baby Bella was born! My own experience in childbirth had been very different—having 4 kids in less total time than it took her to have one—ahh the benefits of being on call the night before giving birth! Hence, Bella’s delivery was transformative for all of us. Ale recognized her inner strength and responsibility as a new mother and me the power and privilege of being a Mom Mom.
#WomensHealth #BirthStory #GenerationalStrength

Hence, I had no qualms returning soon after Bella’s birth to the country where these strong people survive under harsh circumstances to do what I can to help them. Ultimately, as I have learned through this missionary work with Mercy Trips, kindness, compassion and generosity fulfill the ideals of the most important name of all which we each should embrace—Child of God.
#MomMom #LegacyOfLove #FaithFamilyMission #LivingYourPurpose